How to Find a Grave: Step-by-Step Guide for Locating Burial Sites
Finding a grave can be very tricky, especially when you live far away from the desired graveyard that you want to visit.
There have been many times that I have been unsuccessful at finding a grave. However, I've been frequenting cemeteries for quite some time, so I thought I'd put a little guide together on how to find a grave near you!
01 - Collect KEY Details 🔑
- Full Name
- Date of Birth/Death
- Place of Residence - Birthplace might be handy too
- Did they follow a certain religion? Jewish religions have their own cemeteries, and followers of the Muslim religion are known to be buried together
- Know their family connections - build a little tree to familiarise yourself with names.
02 - Use Online Grave Databases
03 - Use Genealogy Sites
04 - In The Graveyard? Keep Your Eyes Peeled!
05 - Visit Your Local Library
06 - Ask The Cemetery (or Church)!
Different countries have different regulations. In the UK, most of our cemeteries are run by the council, but they will still have a list of where people are buried. In my case, I like to find the plot myself, so this isn't a step I've delved into. However, I have asked a former gravedigger friend for assistance on occasion!
If your grave is in a church, or if the person was religious - it might be worth contacting your local parish to see if they can help too.
